CONDOLENCE MESSAGES
"Ed and I feel honored to have known your dad as well as we did. He was an inspiration to us in dealing with our own aging. With his positive attitude and his twinkle, he made the times that we had with him fun. I know how he touched all of you - he touched us too. He'll be missed by all who knew him. What an amazing man he was!
--Warm hugs to you all, Marge and Ed Agranoff
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"I am very sorry to hear Elliott passed away. I was very concerned about him since I had not heard from him in awhile. My father served with him on the USS Chiwawa AO-68. I am the author of the book about the USS Chiwawa. I enjoyed visiting with Elliott and will miss him a lot.
I always enjoyed visiting with your dad. He was the first person I ever spoke to that served aboard the USS Chiwawa beside my dad. He was patient with me and was of great help in writing a chapter about the collision with USS LSM-111. I don't know if he ever showed you my book. If you are interested, I have a Facebook page about the ship.
Talking about the past was not something your dad relished. He lived in the moment and looked to the future. I always enjoyed hearing about his travels especially his fascination with ants. I will miss visiting with him.
There are so many thought going through my head right now it's hard to get it all down. I have been thinking about him a lot in the last few days. I will never forget his kindness and generosity."
--Jon Strupp, author, King of the Oilers, The Story of the U.S.S. Chiwawa AO-68
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"We were saddened to hear about the passing of a St Louis Park icon, Elliot Royce. Wolfe Park visitors may remember him as the man with the Cat in the Hat bicycle. He was our friend in Wolfe Park often stopping to watch rehearsals and bringing chairs for passers by. He was a volunteer at organizations all over town and his generous spirit was legendary. We will remember him fondly and be inspired by his kindness."
--Facebook posting from Public Theater of Minnesota July 21, 2015
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“Words fail to convey the impact that Elliott had on the St. Louis Park Rotary Club. 3 years ago, he flew into our club as a ray of sunshine, enthusiasm and commitment. Never in my 20 years as a Rotarian, have I ever seen an individual who left as deep a mark on our club as Elliott did in just 3 years. He will be missed by all who knew him because of his selfless interest in himself, focusing rather on those who he met and wanted to know better. Rest in peace my friend."
--Paul Bierhaus, St. Louis Park Rotary Club
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"Elliott was such an intelligent, giving man. He gave his presentation on "Fall Safety" on June 9th to our support group for stroke survivors. His honesty and encouragement about living healthy and fully was a gift. You are in our thoughts and prayers."
--Karen Bjorgan, Park Nicollet INSPIRE Program
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"We knew him as a St. Louis Park celebrity, our Waxing the City neighbor, and one of our earliest supporters... and the man who wore many hats. Elliott was a true inspiration in what it means to live a life with purpose. I was honored to call him my friend. I'll miss our occasional Monday noon lunch and car ride to the Rotary meeting. He always told me how proud he was of his family. A wonderful man who taught me a lot! Will miss him dearly."
--Adam Bjorklund, owner of Waxing the City
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“Elliott--what a good friend! He and his son Jeff came to my house and installed toilet bars so I could get on and off the toilet better (I had been in the hospital) and he taught me how to pee sitting down. I had lunch with him about once a month. Annette gave him rides to the JCC about once or twice a week. Wow--we will miss him!”
--Pat Blumenthal and Annette Weinberg
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"Elliott was quite a man full of vigor, honor, and dedication to others all of his life. In particular, I enjoyed his humor and varied interests. Of note: he shared a book with me of famous authors (can't remember the exact name) Topic: How to use math to win in Vegas. It was always a joy having him come to our building to inspire both students and staff alike. I hope you are able to celebrate his life during this time of mourning your family is experiencing. --Les Bork
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"Thank you for going through his contact list. My mother, Marilyn Rosenfield Hetttleman is his first cousin. Her father is/was Eddie Royce. She has told many stories about her growing up in Minneapolis. She left there when she was 20 - moving to California and has only gone back on visits. She is now almost 87 and is living in assisted living in Ventura, California near me - her middle daughter. So glad you have been able to have quality time and are there for you father. Our thoughts and wishes are with the family at this time." --Ellen Boudreaux
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"Your dad was an amazing man as you well know. Seeing him serving up samples at Byerly's always brought a smile to my face. He never failed to ask after my folks and always had such a twinkle in his eyes. His enthusiasm and joy for life was truly amazing and inspiring. I only hope I can have half his vigor, excitement, enthusiasm and joy when I'm half his age. May his memory be for a blessing and continue to inspire us all. My deepest condolences to your family."
--Raquel Briskin
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"Hi Sandie:
I wanted to reach out to express my condolences on the loss of your dad. I never realized you were Elliott Royce’s daughter! What an amazing man, a timeless treasure of St. Louis Park!
I first met Elliott during my son’s 8th grade band concert at SLP Jr. High. The band director publically introduced his senior tuba player from the stage, but that really wasn’t necessary, because after the concert Elliot greeted practically every parent one-on-one. Over the years, I would run into Elliott at many SLP community events (often on his bike or in his cat-in-the-hat hat), and he always had a smile and some words of wisdom to share. When he became a fixture at Byerly’s weekly sampling booths, he would always strike up a conversation – sometimes about the food/sometime not, but always with good humor and a twinkle in his eye.
My own dad died a year ago, although we lost him many years before to dementia. How grateful you must be that your dad lived such a long and well-lived life; so engaged with people, so full of the joy of life. My best to you and your family." --Susan Byers
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"It is with the greatest of sadness that I read your email about my beloved friend, mentor, ‘father that I never had’, brother, uncle--many titles will do. I am proud to tell people that I learned my most decent business practices from my mentor, Elliott Royce. My heart grieves with you on the passing of a very fine man. He was an inspiration and a role model for all who the touched." --Patrick Campbell
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“Cousin Elliott was such a character and an inspiration to me on how to live life to the fullest. I am so glad I was able to spend time with him in North Carolina this past May. My daughter Makaela was fascinated by Elliott and his knowledge. He will be truly missed.”
--Michele (Whitefield) Cochran and Family and Nancy (Royce) Rhoads
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“Elliot was a kind, generous, joyful, one-of-a-kind person. I will always remember:
--Cindy Dubansky
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"I am so sad to hear of my dear Elliott's passing. My mother and I loved him dearly and I will truly miss his living, kind, generous spirit. I just spoke to my mother who is now 94 yrs old. She wanted me to let all of you know how much she loved her cousin Elliott. He was like gold to us, a rare gem and his memory will always be with us. This is a huge loss for me personally as Elliott was my savior when I was incarcerated over twenty years ago. He came to see me, wrote me letters every week and kept me from feeling the shame that I had bestowed on my family.
May his memory be for a blessing. I truly loved Elliott as did my mother, his cousin Miriam. I will say Kaddish for my dearest Elliott and your family, which is mine. He had such love and humanity and I am blessed to have been part of his life. Love and prayers to all of you." --Nancy Eiger & Miriam Brandstatter
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"I have known your Dad since the 1960's, when we were both members of a flying club. He is truly an amazing man, who cares deeply about other people, particularly those disadvantaged or in need, and has been active in trying to help them. His sense of humor is wonderful and he is a joy to spend time with. Above all, he is and has always been his own man, who lives his values proudly and publicly, but is humble about taking credit for what he does. He has set an example of a caring life for all of the friends and acquaintances. I am thinking of him and wish him peace."
--Dick Fink
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“Elliott was a one of a kind man and a love! I will miss him so much, as will many, many people. I see his face so clearly, when he would tell me something was good with a click of his tongue and an A-OK sign! I feel the loss for his family and his other loved ones. I am terribly sorry.”
--Kim E. Fishman
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“Elliott was our former neighbor. He was such a character. He taught my son how to juggle and always had a good piece of advice from him on his bike-riding skills. :-) What a one-of-kind human being!” --Renee Gilmore
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"Please accept my deepest condolences, I really thought a great deal of your father, he was a very special man. I have very fond memories of him. Pericles said, “What we leave behind is not that which is engraved in stone monuments, what we leave behind is that which is woven into the lives of others.” Your father wove his life into everyone he came into contact with! I will miss him, as I know you will, but his life is never over until no one knows he lived, and that will be a long time from now! Again, I am deeply saddened by the news, please accept my sympathy." --Kevin Gleitz
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"Elliott was an amazing person! He was a joy to be with. He was an important part of PACER and also my life! His zest for life was wonderful! My 7 year old Grandson in Santa Monica told my son Robert a week ago that Grandma Paula has a friend who is 90 and still jumps on a trampoline! I send you my love!" --Paula Goldberg
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"I am devastated to hear this. There is something i would like to tell you about your father and my friendship. When David and I married almost 57 years ago, we faced a lot of resistance from his parents and mine and some other relatives, because of our religious differences. Your father, whom I had not yet met, sent me a letter welcoming me into the family. I have never forgotten how much this generous, understanding and sensitive action on his part meant to me, and we have remained good friends ever since.
We emailed frequently, he stayed here several times, and he has to be the most creative and imaginative person with so many varied interests, that I have ever known. This is hard news, coming as it does so close to our loss of Lester last August." --Donna Gottlieb
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"I'm crying as I write to you about the loss of your Dad - a great man. I'm not sure if you share this feeling, but I guess the little girl in me thought since Dad was around for so long, that he'd never go away.Please know how much your Dad influenced mine. He always looked up to him and admired him."
--Leslie Gottlieb
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"What a wonderful and happy man. He loved everyone he met. He will be truly missed .”
--Lisa Heilicher
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“Cindy and Mike. Very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you.” --Mike Horowitz
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"Elliott is an inspiration who exemplified living life to the full with exuberance! So I tip my top hat to an incredible man who asked me over lunch, “What are you doing on Tuesday? Would you like to come and jump on a trampoline with me?” I said yes and have been blessed greatly. My heart and prayers are with all of you."
--Tracy Keibler
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"Even though I never met your dad, I sure feel like I knew him from hearing about the many and incredible stories of his escapades. What a life force - what a life lived. Sending a hug."
--Laurie Lachowitzer
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"I go back many years with him to my days on the Metropolitan Airports Commission. He contacted me several months ago to tell me that he read my book, Running to Make A Difference. He has truly made a difference and I'm proud to say that I've known him. He is a remarkable and inspiring person."
--Len Levine
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"Elliott was such a cool guy. I liked the hats that he wore to the Successful Aging Meetings. I will miss talking with him at the meetings." --Fred Lewis
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"What a gift it was to meet Elliott! Truly an inspiration and a gentleman. Cherish the memories.”
--Libby Lincoln, Park Nicollet Foundation
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“He set a great example for enjoying life. He'd ride around Excelsior & Grand on his big tricycle, with his tall red and white Dr. Suess hat and stop in at the stores to tell us of his latest video on how to fall. Often he'd bring us bananas. One day he taught me about ant architecture. I will dearly miss this kind-hearted, joyful character. May his memory be a blessing.” --Leslie Martin
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"May his memory and his youthfulness, vigor, and zest for life be an example for all of the younger generation. He was a friend, and a model for anyone who thinks that age is a barrier for dreams, desires, and accomplishments. He was a kind, generous, and iving person who always thought of helping others and being of assistance to those in need. I miss his antics, energy, his balloons, his demos at Byerlys and his humor aka, Dr. Suess. I know that the heavens are laughing and welcoming him with open arms.. He will be missed, but his legacy will be a shining star for all those who were touched by him. May his memory be an example for everyone to model themselves by his life and good deeds, and be a blessing for all time." --Elliot Miller
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"We are all so sad to hear about your father. We loved when he would come around and visit at Bubbly Paws, it always put a smile on our faces. He loved bringing in dog-related articles and we always joked about putting our dog on the back on his bike. He always brought a smile to our day when he would stop in. Thanks for sharing the website, and again we are so sorry! He will be missed by all the businesses at Excelsior and Grand!"
--Keith Miller, Pampered Pooch Playground
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"Funny how random events can affect a life. My wife Shirley and I met Elliott on a Elderhostel trip to Spain, May 2001. Because I kept records of all our Elderhostel trips, this one was especially memorable. Elliott was memorable: a remarkable, friendly demeanor. A born storyteller, terrific company. And a great letter writer. I think we corresponded for a few years. It's his energy level that I remember. I think he was in his 90's when he took classes at a gym in how to fall properly, An unusual, lovable friend."
--Sid Miller
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"There are some who bring a list so great to the world that even after they are gone, the light remains."
"My thoughts return to several gatherings at your family home in St. Louis Park, before the days when we had our own homes. Your Dad provided a warm and welcoming place for the college kids--I was mesmerized! It was a lovely evening in the lovely downstairs. You invited a few of us to share the Seder dinner with the family, with your Dad explaining and telling stories. And, of course, there are wonderful memories of your backyard wedding, again with your Dad as the gracious and happy host. You have so many, many memories. Cherish them. --Patsy Mogush
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"Thank you SO MUCH for letting me know about Elliott's situation. He and I have enjoyed MANY Sunday morning breakfasts during these last few years (In fact I was planning to call him about the possibility of our next Sunday breakfast this weekend).
I have truly benefited from my association with him. I first met him as a volunteer in my band class about 10-12 years ago but since then have felt a true friendship with him. Our school band program and I have benefited from his generosity of time and resources over the years but I have BENEFITED THE MOST from the friendship he provided.
I'm sure you will not be surprised to hear the significant impact Elliott has had on my life."
--Randy Moore
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"Elliott was a very special friend, humanitarian, and the world will miss having a member of the world community gone. His smile and energy livened up every place he was at. He WILL be missed. Elliott is and will remain one of a kind…" --Jon Nygren
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"My name is Lynn, and I'm a 28-year-old professional musician and music therapist in the area. I had the absolute joy of meeting Elliott back in the early summer of 2010. One day I was riding my bike down Excelsior Blvd, when I see this beautiful man with a bright pink top hat. Big smile, and clearly ready to connect with anybody who passes his way. I was charmed. I pulled over and approached him to say hello and ask some questions.
He immediately invited me to join him, which I happily did - We rode down Excelsior Blvd, and around the park near his apartment at the time. Loved every second, and loved hearing how this specially-engineered bike came to be. He was so open and alive, and just an exciting new friend in my world... I remember when he told me he was 91, I only ended up living in St. Louis Park for 6 months; it's been several years since I've seen him. I've thought of him regularly though, sending him a blessing and gratitude for the incredible inspiration. His vitality, generosity and playfulness was evident from a block away, and I can only IMAGINE the impact he has had on all in his world. I have enjoyed reading stories about him online and reminiscing about our fortunate meeting.
I'm so truly sorry for your loss. I'm sending comfort, empathy and light to you and all those who know him. And, to know Elliott is to love Elliott. I am brighter, more playful, more creative, and more inspired to be alive because of him.
--Lynn O'Brien
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"You have been blessed with a wonderful legacy. He has launched so many lives. I am so grateful for the many ways he supported STEP and me in my position as director. May his good works continue."
-- Jackie Olafson
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"May it comfort your family to know the many hearts Elliott touched as he was kind, silly and so giving. A wonderful 95 years". --Lisa Overline & The Hansens and also, "He give me real nice bike. I will show you picture I will remember him by." --from Angie
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"Hi Cindy, I saw on Beth's FB page the darling video of your dad. I am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful man. I know how hard it is to lose a dad. I am happy that you had so many years with him…giving you many many beautiful memories. So, I have to share with you. We own Techline, on Excelsior Blvd in SLP. For a while now, this sweet little older gentlemen would stop by on occasion to chat briefly. He would always give us a bunch of bananas (Kevin's favorite…eats one every day!) and leave his card. Kevin had a real soft spot for this guy. Tonight I was sharing the video of Beth's with Kevin, and he's says…"That is my Banana Friend!!". Wow. Had we only put two and two together a while back, we could have shared with him that we knew you! What a small world. So again I want to say that both Kevin and I are so very sorry for your loss. We will be thinking of you.
--Kevin and Betsy Byrne Pfeifer
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"Elliott certainly has been a prominent figure in St. Louis Park. I think I first spotted him in about 2004 on his trike when I first moved to apartments near the smaller Target, and of course after I began working for the Sun Sailor I've enjoyed talking to him throughout the years. My thanks to Elliott for his efforts over the years and for sharing his fun and vibrant persona with the Park. I know a lot of people have enjoyed his presence, young and old."
--Seth Rowe
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"Hello Cindy. I am a old Talmud Torah classmate of yours. I just saw your fathers obit and want to offer you and your siblings my condolences. I came to know your father over the years from his being at the JCC, working serving hot chocolate at Park Nicollet, giving samples out at Byerley's and always riding his trike with his signature Cat in the Hat hat. The last time I saw him was at the Parktacular parade in June. His memory should always be for a blessing and your and your siblings should be comforted among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem. His memory should always be for a blessing." --Conrad Segal
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"I'm not one much for expressing my feelings but the picture of Elliott on his trike brought tears to my eyes. You have no idea how often I use Elliott as a quality example of how to live." --Fred Shank
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"Accolades come easily when describing your father. Elliott was adored by so many people, seeing him enjoy life, giving others a joy for living. May you retain only the best of memories."
--Sarah and Martin Shragg
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“My condolences on the loss of Elliott. It was wonderful growing up in the extended Gottlieb Royce family and enjoying all of our characters. Much love from the Sherr Family.” --Cindy Sherr
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"Elliott is one of the most enlightened and enlightening persons I've ever met. He also is a true and good friend who always seems to have time to talk with you and, more importantly, is always such a good listener. Our prayers are with you and the family. Our prayers are with you and the family."
--Artie and Mort Silverman
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"I am Ed and Perk Stanko's daughter, Sandy. My Dad worked at Groves Kelco many years ago and met Elliott then. Both he and my Mom considered Elliott one of their dearest friends. They always talked fondly of him. My Dad was very concerned about Elliott when he heard of your brother's recent death. He was so happy and relieved to connect with Elliott by phone a few weeks ago. Thinking of all of you with warm regards."
--Sandy Stanko Knilans
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"What a wonderful man! We met for coffee so he could tell me more about how JFK almost single-handedly stopped the tradition of wearing hats. I appreciate learning more about Elliott through these posts, but regret not knowing him better. I enjoyed the benefit of his knowledge on the most arcane of subjects. I am fortunate to have known him, however briefly.” --Anne Tabat
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“In my previous job at Wayside House, Inc., Elliott would make balloon animals for the women going through chemical dependency treatment and their children. I attended a Successful Aging Meeting recently and had the opportunity to tell him how much he meant to Wayside House. Elliott was one of a kind!” --Deb Taylor, Senior Community Services
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“Dear Jeff, I was so sorry to learn of the death of your father.” -- Anne C. Therkelsen
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“Elliott loved people. He loved making us smile. He loved making us feel special. He was a man whose heart was filled with generosity and laughter and genuine care for others. His gift was to touch the lives of others, a gift that lives on forever.” --Linda Trummer
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"St. Louis Park School Foundation Board and friends,
Many of you know Elliot. He's an institution in St. Louis Park, famous for his trampolining, his art-of-falling classes, his Dr. Seuss bike, his opening of the Rec Center pool each June with the ceremonial first slide, and greeting and chatting with many during coffee time at Starbucks. He's 95 or 96 and it seems he may have only a short time remaining.
Judy, your father is a truly inspirational and amazing man. Thank you for passing on this information, and know that the heart of the city is with you and your family during this time. Please give him all our best, and let him know how special he has been to us." --Tracy Vig
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“Elliot was the best of the best. A true gentleman and absolutely wonderful man. His visits to my office to talk and drop off bananas were always cherished by myself and my staff. He was a friend, an inspiration and left his mark on everyone he met. We will all miss him.”
--Greg Young, Home Care Assistance
"Ed and I feel honored to have known your dad as well as we did. He was an inspiration to us in dealing with our own aging. With his positive attitude and his twinkle, he made the times that we had with him fun. I know how he touched all of you - he touched us too. He'll be missed by all who knew him. What an amazing man he was!
--Warm hugs to you all, Marge and Ed Agranoff
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"I am very sorry to hear Elliott passed away. I was very concerned about him since I had not heard from him in awhile. My father served with him on the USS Chiwawa AO-68. I am the author of the book about the USS Chiwawa. I enjoyed visiting with Elliott and will miss him a lot.
I always enjoyed visiting with your dad. He was the first person I ever spoke to that served aboard the USS Chiwawa beside my dad. He was patient with me and was of great help in writing a chapter about the collision with USS LSM-111. I don't know if he ever showed you my book. If you are interested, I have a Facebook page about the ship.
Talking about the past was not something your dad relished. He lived in the moment and looked to the future. I always enjoyed hearing about his travels especially his fascination with ants. I will miss visiting with him.
There are so many thought going through my head right now it's hard to get it all down. I have been thinking about him a lot in the last few days. I will never forget his kindness and generosity."
--Jon Strupp, author, King of the Oilers, The Story of the U.S.S. Chiwawa AO-68
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"We were saddened to hear about the passing of a St Louis Park icon, Elliot Royce. Wolfe Park visitors may remember him as the man with the Cat in the Hat bicycle. He was our friend in Wolfe Park often stopping to watch rehearsals and bringing chairs for passers by. He was a volunteer at organizations all over town and his generous spirit was legendary. We will remember him fondly and be inspired by his kindness."
--Facebook posting from Public Theater of Minnesota July 21, 2015
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“Words fail to convey the impact that Elliott had on the St. Louis Park Rotary Club. 3 years ago, he flew into our club as a ray of sunshine, enthusiasm and commitment. Never in my 20 years as a Rotarian, have I ever seen an individual who left as deep a mark on our club as Elliott did in just 3 years. He will be missed by all who knew him because of his selfless interest in himself, focusing rather on those who he met and wanted to know better. Rest in peace my friend."
--Paul Bierhaus, St. Louis Park Rotary Club
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"Elliott was such an intelligent, giving man. He gave his presentation on "Fall Safety" on June 9th to our support group for stroke survivors. His honesty and encouragement about living healthy and fully was a gift. You are in our thoughts and prayers."
--Karen Bjorgan, Park Nicollet INSPIRE Program
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"We knew him as a St. Louis Park celebrity, our Waxing the City neighbor, and one of our earliest supporters... and the man who wore many hats. Elliott was a true inspiration in what it means to live a life with purpose. I was honored to call him my friend. I'll miss our occasional Monday noon lunch and car ride to the Rotary meeting. He always told me how proud he was of his family. A wonderful man who taught me a lot! Will miss him dearly."
--Adam Bjorklund, owner of Waxing the City
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“Elliott--what a good friend! He and his son Jeff came to my house and installed toilet bars so I could get on and off the toilet better (I had been in the hospital) and he taught me how to pee sitting down. I had lunch with him about once a month. Annette gave him rides to the JCC about once or twice a week. Wow--we will miss him!”
--Pat Blumenthal and Annette Weinberg
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"Elliott was quite a man full of vigor, honor, and dedication to others all of his life. In particular, I enjoyed his humor and varied interests. Of note: he shared a book with me of famous authors (can't remember the exact name) Topic: How to use math to win in Vegas. It was always a joy having him come to our building to inspire both students and staff alike. I hope you are able to celebrate his life during this time of mourning your family is experiencing. --Les Bork
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"Thank you for going through his contact list. My mother, Marilyn Rosenfield Hetttleman is his first cousin. Her father is/was Eddie Royce. She has told many stories about her growing up in Minneapolis. She left there when she was 20 - moving to California and has only gone back on visits. She is now almost 87 and is living in assisted living in Ventura, California near me - her middle daughter. So glad you have been able to have quality time and are there for you father. Our thoughts and wishes are with the family at this time." --Ellen Boudreaux
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"Your dad was an amazing man as you well know. Seeing him serving up samples at Byerly's always brought a smile to my face. He never failed to ask after my folks and always had such a twinkle in his eyes. His enthusiasm and joy for life was truly amazing and inspiring. I only hope I can have half his vigor, excitement, enthusiasm and joy when I'm half his age. May his memory be for a blessing and continue to inspire us all. My deepest condolences to your family."
--Raquel Briskin
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"Hi Sandie:
I wanted to reach out to express my condolences on the loss of your dad. I never realized you were Elliott Royce’s daughter! What an amazing man, a timeless treasure of St. Louis Park!
I first met Elliott during my son’s 8th grade band concert at SLP Jr. High. The band director publically introduced his senior tuba player from the stage, but that really wasn’t necessary, because after the concert Elliot greeted practically every parent one-on-one. Over the years, I would run into Elliott at many SLP community events (often on his bike or in his cat-in-the-hat hat), and he always had a smile and some words of wisdom to share. When he became a fixture at Byerly’s weekly sampling booths, he would always strike up a conversation – sometimes about the food/sometime not, but always with good humor and a twinkle in his eye.
My own dad died a year ago, although we lost him many years before to dementia. How grateful you must be that your dad lived such a long and well-lived life; so engaged with people, so full of the joy of life. My best to you and your family." --Susan Byers
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"It is with the greatest of sadness that I read your email about my beloved friend, mentor, ‘father that I never had’, brother, uncle--many titles will do. I am proud to tell people that I learned my most decent business practices from my mentor, Elliott Royce. My heart grieves with you on the passing of a very fine man. He was an inspiration and a role model for all who the touched." --Patrick Campbell
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“Cousin Elliott was such a character and an inspiration to me on how to live life to the fullest. I am so glad I was able to spend time with him in North Carolina this past May. My daughter Makaela was fascinated by Elliott and his knowledge. He will be truly missed.”
--Michele (Whitefield) Cochran and Family and Nancy (Royce) Rhoads
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“Elliot was a kind, generous, joyful, one-of-a-kind person. I will always remember:
- his hats for all occasions and no occasions (especially his Dr. Seuss hat),
- seeing him ride around on his recumbent tricycle with Dr. Seuss,
- a puzzle he gave me that I still haven't solved,
- driving him around seeking supplies for his current invention,
- his big smile and sincere greeting,
- and of course, the Chevra Kavod Hamet of Adath Jeshurun Congregation will always be grateful to Elliott & Jeff for inventing our first casket.
--Cindy Dubansky
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"I am so sad to hear of my dear Elliott's passing. My mother and I loved him dearly and I will truly miss his living, kind, generous spirit. I just spoke to my mother who is now 94 yrs old. She wanted me to let all of you know how much she loved her cousin Elliott. He was like gold to us, a rare gem and his memory will always be with us. This is a huge loss for me personally as Elliott was my savior when I was incarcerated over twenty years ago. He came to see me, wrote me letters every week and kept me from feeling the shame that I had bestowed on my family.
May his memory be for a blessing. I truly loved Elliott as did my mother, his cousin Miriam. I will say Kaddish for my dearest Elliott and your family, which is mine. He had such love and humanity and I am blessed to have been part of his life. Love and prayers to all of you." --Nancy Eiger & Miriam Brandstatter
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"I have known your Dad since the 1960's, when we were both members of a flying club. He is truly an amazing man, who cares deeply about other people, particularly those disadvantaged or in need, and has been active in trying to help them. His sense of humor is wonderful and he is a joy to spend time with. Above all, he is and has always been his own man, who lives his values proudly and publicly, but is humble about taking credit for what he does. He has set an example of a caring life for all of the friends and acquaintances. I am thinking of him and wish him peace."
--Dick Fink
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“Elliott was a one of a kind man and a love! I will miss him so much, as will many, many people. I see his face so clearly, when he would tell me something was good with a click of his tongue and an A-OK sign! I feel the loss for his family and his other loved ones. I am terribly sorry.”
--Kim E. Fishman
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“Elliott was our former neighbor. He was such a character. He taught my son how to juggle and always had a good piece of advice from him on his bike-riding skills. :-) What a one-of-kind human being!” --Renee Gilmore
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"Please accept my deepest condolences, I really thought a great deal of your father, he was a very special man. I have very fond memories of him. Pericles said, “What we leave behind is not that which is engraved in stone monuments, what we leave behind is that which is woven into the lives of others.” Your father wove his life into everyone he came into contact with! I will miss him, as I know you will, but his life is never over until no one knows he lived, and that will be a long time from now! Again, I am deeply saddened by the news, please accept my sympathy." --Kevin Gleitz
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"Elliott was an amazing person! He was a joy to be with. He was an important part of PACER and also my life! His zest for life was wonderful! My 7 year old Grandson in Santa Monica told my son Robert a week ago that Grandma Paula has a friend who is 90 and still jumps on a trampoline! I send you my love!" --Paula Goldberg
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"I am devastated to hear this. There is something i would like to tell you about your father and my friendship. When David and I married almost 57 years ago, we faced a lot of resistance from his parents and mine and some other relatives, because of our religious differences. Your father, whom I had not yet met, sent me a letter welcoming me into the family. I have never forgotten how much this generous, understanding and sensitive action on his part meant to me, and we have remained good friends ever since.
We emailed frequently, he stayed here several times, and he has to be the most creative and imaginative person with so many varied interests, that I have ever known. This is hard news, coming as it does so close to our loss of Lester last August." --Donna Gottlieb
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"I'm crying as I write to you about the loss of your Dad - a great man. I'm not sure if you share this feeling, but I guess the little girl in me thought since Dad was around for so long, that he'd never go away.Please know how much your Dad influenced mine. He always looked up to him and admired him."
--Leslie Gottlieb
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"What a wonderful and happy man. He loved everyone he met. He will be truly missed .”
--Lisa Heilicher
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“Cindy and Mike. Very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you.” --Mike Horowitz
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"Elliott is an inspiration who exemplified living life to the full with exuberance! So I tip my top hat to an incredible man who asked me over lunch, “What are you doing on Tuesday? Would you like to come and jump on a trampoline with me?” I said yes and have been blessed greatly. My heart and prayers are with all of you."
--Tracy Keibler
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"Even though I never met your dad, I sure feel like I knew him from hearing about the many and incredible stories of his escapades. What a life force - what a life lived. Sending a hug."
--Laurie Lachowitzer
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"I go back many years with him to my days on the Metropolitan Airports Commission. He contacted me several months ago to tell me that he read my book, Running to Make A Difference. He has truly made a difference and I'm proud to say that I've known him. He is a remarkable and inspiring person."
--Len Levine
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"Elliott was such a cool guy. I liked the hats that he wore to the Successful Aging Meetings. I will miss talking with him at the meetings." --Fred Lewis
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"What a gift it was to meet Elliott! Truly an inspiration and a gentleman. Cherish the memories.”
--Libby Lincoln, Park Nicollet Foundation
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“He set a great example for enjoying life. He'd ride around Excelsior & Grand on his big tricycle, with his tall red and white Dr. Suess hat and stop in at the stores to tell us of his latest video on how to fall. Often he'd bring us bananas. One day he taught me about ant architecture. I will dearly miss this kind-hearted, joyful character. May his memory be a blessing.” --Leslie Martin
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"May his memory and his youthfulness, vigor, and zest for life be an example for all of the younger generation. He was a friend, and a model for anyone who thinks that age is a barrier for dreams, desires, and accomplishments. He was a kind, generous, and iving person who always thought of helping others and being of assistance to those in need. I miss his antics, energy, his balloons, his demos at Byerlys and his humor aka, Dr. Suess. I know that the heavens are laughing and welcoming him with open arms.. He will be missed, but his legacy will be a shining star for all those who were touched by him. May his memory be an example for everyone to model themselves by his life and good deeds, and be a blessing for all time." --Elliot Miller
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"We are all so sad to hear about your father. We loved when he would come around and visit at Bubbly Paws, it always put a smile on our faces. He loved bringing in dog-related articles and we always joked about putting our dog on the back on his bike. He always brought a smile to our day when he would stop in. Thanks for sharing the website, and again we are so sorry! He will be missed by all the businesses at Excelsior and Grand!"
--Keith Miller, Pampered Pooch Playground
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"Funny how random events can affect a life. My wife Shirley and I met Elliott on a Elderhostel trip to Spain, May 2001. Because I kept records of all our Elderhostel trips, this one was especially memorable. Elliott was memorable: a remarkable, friendly demeanor. A born storyteller, terrific company. And a great letter writer. I think we corresponded for a few years. It's his energy level that I remember. I think he was in his 90's when he took classes at a gym in how to fall properly, An unusual, lovable friend."
--Sid Miller
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"There are some who bring a list so great to the world that even after they are gone, the light remains."
"My thoughts return to several gatherings at your family home in St. Louis Park, before the days when we had our own homes. Your Dad provided a warm and welcoming place for the college kids--I was mesmerized! It was a lovely evening in the lovely downstairs. You invited a few of us to share the Seder dinner with the family, with your Dad explaining and telling stories. And, of course, there are wonderful memories of your backyard wedding, again with your Dad as the gracious and happy host. You have so many, many memories. Cherish them. --Patsy Mogush
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"Thank you SO MUCH for letting me know about Elliott's situation. He and I have enjoyed MANY Sunday morning breakfasts during these last few years (In fact I was planning to call him about the possibility of our next Sunday breakfast this weekend).
I have truly benefited from my association with him. I first met him as a volunteer in my band class about 10-12 years ago but since then have felt a true friendship with him. Our school band program and I have benefited from his generosity of time and resources over the years but I have BENEFITED THE MOST from the friendship he provided.
I'm sure you will not be surprised to hear the significant impact Elliott has had on my life."
--Randy Moore
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"Elliott was a very special friend, humanitarian, and the world will miss having a member of the world community gone. His smile and energy livened up every place he was at. He WILL be missed. Elliott is and will remain one of a kind…" --Jon Nygren
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"My name is Lynn, and I'm a 28-year-old professional musician and music therapist in the area. I had the absolute joy of meeting Elliott back in the early summer of 2010. One day I was riding my bike down Excelsior Blvd, when I see this beautiful man with a bright pink top hat. Big smile, and clearly ready to connect with anybody who passes his way. I was charmed. I pulled over and approached him to say hello and ask some questions.
He immediately invited me to join him, which I happily did - We rode down Excelsior Blvd, and around the park near his apartment at the time. Loved every second, and loved hearing how this specially-engineered bike came to be. He was so open and alive, and just an exciting new friend in my world... I remember when he told me he was 91, I only ended up living in St. Louis Park for 6 months; it's been several years since I've seen him. I've thought of him regularly though, sending him a blessing and gratitude for the incredible inspiration. His vitality, generosity and playfulness was evident from a block away, and I can only IMAGINE the impact he has had on all in his world. I have enjoyed reading stories about him online and reminiscing about our fortunate meeting.
I'm so truly sorry for your loss. I'm sending comfort, empathy and light to you and all those who know him. And, to know Elliott is to love Elliott. I am brighter, more playful, more creative, and more inspired to be alive because of him.
--Lynn O'Brien
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"You have been blessed with a wonderful legacy. He has launched so many lives. I am so grateful for the many ways he supported STEP and me in my position as director. May his good works continue."
-- Jackie Olafson
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"May it comfort your family to know the many hearts Elliott touched as he was kind, silly and so giving. A wonderful 95 years". --Lisa Overline & The Hansens and also, "He give me real nice bike. I will show you picture I will remember him by." --from Angie
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"Hi Cindy, I saw on Beth's FB page the darling video of your dad. I am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful man. I know how hard it is to lose a dad. I am happy that you had so many years with him…giving you many many beautiful memories. So, I have to share with you. We own Techline, on Excelsior Blvd in SLP. For a while now, this sweet little older gentlemen would stop by on occasion to chat briefly. He would always give us a bunch of bananas (Kevin's favorite…eats one every day!) and leave his card. Kevin had a real soft spot for this guy. Tonight I was sharing the video of Beth's with Kevin, and he's says…"That is my Banana Friend!!". Wow. Had we only put two and two together a while back, we could have shared with him that we knew you! What a small world. So again I want to say that both Kevin and I are so very sorry for your loss. We will be thinking of you.
--Kevin and Betsy Byrne Pfeifer
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"Elliott certainly has been a prominent figure in St. Louis Park. I think I first spotted him in about 2004 on his trike when I first moved to apartments near the smaller Target, and of course after I began working for the Sun Sailor I've enjoyed talking to him throughout the years. My thanks to Elliott for his efforts over the years and for sharing his fun and vibrant persona with the Park. I know a lot of people have enjoyed his presence, young and old."
--Seth Rowe
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"Hello Cindy. I am a old Talmud Torah classmate of yours. I just saw your fathers obit and want to offer you and your siblings my condolences. I came to know your father over the years from his being at the JCC, working serving hot chocolate at Park Nicollet, giving samples out at Byerley's and always riding his trike with his signature Cat in the Hat hat. The last time I saw him was at the Parktacular parade in June. His memory should always be for a blessing and your and your siblings should be comforted among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem. His memory should always be for a blessing." --Conrad Segal
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"I'm not one much for expressing my feelings but the picture of Elliott on his trike brought tears to my eyes. You have no idea how often I use Elliott as a quality example of how to live." --Fred Shank
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"Accolades come easily when describing your father. Elliott was adored by so many people, seeing him enjoy life, giving others a joy for living. May you retain only the best of memories."
--Sarah and Martin Shragg
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“My condolences on the loss of Elliott. It was wonderful growing up in the extended Gottlieb Royce family and enjoying all of our characters. Much love from the Sherr Family.” --Cindy Sherr
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"Elliott is one of the most enlightened and enlightening persons I've ever met. He also is a true and good friend who always seems to have time to talk with you and, more importantly, is always such a good listener. Our prayers are with you and the family. Our prayers are with you and the family."
--Artie and Mort Silverman
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"I am Ed and Perk Stanko's daughter, Sandy. My Dad worked at Groves Kelco many years ago and met Elliott then. Both he and my Mom considered Elliott one of their dearest friends. They always talked fondly of him. My Dad was very concerned about Elliott when he heard of your brother's recent death. He was so happy and relieved to connect with Elliott by phone a few weeks ago. Thinking of all of you with warm regards."
--Sandy Stanko Knilans
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"What a wonderful man! We met for coffee so he could tell me more about how JFK almost single-handedly stopped the tradition of wearing hats. I appreciate learning more about Elliott through these posts, but regret not knowing him better. I enjoyed the benefit of his knowledge on the most arcane of subjects. I am fortunate to have known him, however briefly.” --Anne Tabat
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“In my previous job at Wayside House, Inc., Elliott would make balloon animals for the women going through chemical dependency treatment and their children. I attended a Successful Aging Meeting recently and had the opportunity to tell him how much he meant to Wayside House. Elliott was one of a kind!” --Deb Taylor, Senior Community Services
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“Dear Jeff, I was so sorry to learn of the death of your father.” -- Anne C. Therkelsen
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“Elliott loved people. He loved making us smile. He loved making us feel special. He was a man whose heart was filled with generosity and laughter and genuine care for others. His gift was to touch the lives of others, a gift that lives on forever.” --Linda Trummer
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"St. Louis Park School Foundation Board and friends,
Many of you know Elliot. He's an institution in St. Louis Park, famous for his trampolining, his art-of-falling classes, his Dr. Seuss bike, his opening of the Rec Center pool each June with the ceremonial first slide, and greeting and chatting with many during coffee time at Starbucks. He's 95 or 96 and it seems he may have only a short time remaining.
Judy, your father is a truly inspirational and amazing man. Thank you for passing on this information, and know that the heart of the city is with you and your family during this time. Please give him all our best, and let him know how special he has been to us." --Tracy Vig
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“Elliot was the best of the best. A true gentleman and absolutely wonderful man. His visits to my office to talk and drop off bananas were always cherished by myself and my staff. He was a friend, an inspiration and left his mark on everyone he met. We will all miss him.”
--Greg Young, Home Care Assistance